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Love like dingleberries…

Love like dingleberries…

Clinging is a bitch.  Whether you are the clinger or clingee, it’s a shitty situation.  The old saying ‘if you love something, set it free’ is stupid.  It’s stupid and also true.  But perhaps it is less of a ‘set it free’ and more of a become aware of what it is you are scared of by letting go.  Figuring out why we do things is always the first step in finding any sort of resolution.

If you need some assistance, let me tell you this.  Once you realize and accept that you have no control over anything but your own choices, there is less clutter and confusion.  You feel the way you feel about a person or situation and you have every right to feel that way.  And just as each of us has a feeling about a situation, we also have a choice of how we view that situation.

Quite often how we love someone is just as important as just loving them in the first place.  Holding on and clinging often leads us to say and do things out of quiet (or loud) desperation and, more often than not, turns to shit and fucks things up even more.  We can never own someone and if we truly love them, they must be allowed to be who they are.  It is ok to want better for them but in a constructive, loving, supportive way.  Manipulation and criticism are never rooted in real love.

In my opinion and experience, if you truly love someone you always will.  Why would you ever fear what someone cannot take from you unless it is not true and real?  If your love of someone else depends on THEIR behavior from day to day, maybe it is not love…  Think about your best childhood friend.  You probably never stress or question their love for you and vice-versa.  Yet we stress and strain most of our romantic relationships to the point of obliteration…  Allow space and give some space.  Let someone love you and let yourself love someone in turn… simple.

Love and stuff,

Loveless Cupid

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  1. Anon
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    very true, but also hard.

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